Issues with Mass Effect 3 endings

I am a big fan of Mass Effect games because it is choice driven.  That being said I was shocked that Mass Effect 3's end that no mater what choice you made the outcome was basically the same.  That no matter the choice Shepard dies.  Also the Cinematic after the fake choice there was no closure with the characters you become attached to and there is no clear choice that has only the Reapers destroyed and the Mass Relays are still fully functional.  There needs to be a way where Shepard survives and has only the Reapers destroyed and the Mass Relays are still fully functional. Then a Cinematic with friends reuniting and if Shepard had a love interest a scene or to with them reuniting and celebrating.

The apparent destruction of the Citadel  is a potential problem in the Story.  The Citadel is part of the catalyst and in Scientific terms catalyst is something that causes activity between two or more forces without itself being affected.

Bioware to change ‘Mass Effect 3′ ending 

Mass Effect 3 Review *possible spoilers*

I really like the game and the challenges it presented.  It was a great end for the trilogy of games except Shepard dies at the end no matter which option you choose at the end .  I also like that the added the possibility for a gay romance for the male Shepard (which made the giddy as a school girl grinning from ear to ear with happines)  plus had a new character that was gay and unfortunately lost his Husband.  Liara who was my romance from Mass Effect and Mass Effect 2 for Kaiden who I myself was crushing on in ME1 and his brief appearance in ME2.  Liara did have a bitchy one liner after I went with Kaiden.  I also liked how they did the sex scene and then comes back to us asleep with them on their side and Kaiden's arm draped over Shepard and when Shepard woke from another disturbing dream Kaiden woke and ask what was up.  Before the final series of battles at a base the resistance just set up Kaiden and Shepard have a moment and the they kiss.  That was so sweet.  Over all a really good game and if in ME2 everyone survived the final mission you will see them again in ME3.